As a response, he posted this reference guide for dealing with white privilege when you encounter it. He says it so well, I got his permission to post it here, so I hope and encourage everyone to read it and to think about their own behaviors and the privilege they might be benefiting from without even realizing it.
Xen Sanders on 'white privilege':
Here's the link for his post: Xen Sanders' facebook status on white privilege
And here's his website: Xenarchy